India Sex Trade
Ok I'm not exactly sure why the sudden number of posts about India and sex, but after my earlier article on Bollywood and Sex, I accidentally came across this series of articles about the sex trade in the Times of India (TI).
It would seem the sex trade, like most aspects of the economy in India, is booming. The TI, however, seems to want to cast a look on a rapidly growing area of the industry involving what they refer to as "good girls":
Most of these 'good girls' in the sex trade are between the age group of 18 and 35 and know that the 'exit route' is open for them. For some if the dire need for money seems to be the reason, for others it's just a path to the luxuries of life. (click here for the full article)While the articles don't go into sufficient length on the issue, there seems to be a common thread connecting the women involved.
Girls - professionals, students and the educated-but-unemployed - are increasingly getting into the trade to fulfill their escalating material aspirations. And NO! Maybe some would do it for pleasure, but all call girls we spoke to or were told of, do it plain and simply for the 'money'. (click here for the full article)Again the money issue, but note the beginning of the quote. The women involved are highly educated, but under or unemployed. The motivation to acquire, specifically to live a comfortable, perhaps even luxurious life, feeds directly into their motivation to get paid for sex. But the fact that they can make more money selling their bodies and their beauty, despite their education, is what draws them into the trade. It is certainly not some love of sexual pleasure, but pure materialistic instinct.
Communications technology also seems to play a big role in keeping the sex work discreet for this group of women, who while wanting to enjoy the monetary benefits, also want to remain anonymous in order to have a "normal" life when they retire from this particular career path:
And these street-smart damsels have completely turned the term 'globalisation' on its head. Gone are the days when 'sex trade' conjured images of 'redlight areas' like GB Road in Delhi, murky Sonapur in Mumbai or Sonagachi in Kolkatta.The "transactions" for services are also beginning to take place in unusual locations. While hotel rooms tend to be the usual locale for call girls, one of the TI articles mentions that prostitutes also rent flats in upscale neighbourhoods, and in some cases even rooms in family dwellings:
With technology - Internet, mobile and satellite telephony - opening new frontiers, it has laid bare whole new world of ways to carry out the oldest profession.
DCP Southwest of Delhi Police, Deependra Pathak, says, "We were informed about such an activity in one of Delhi's posh locality. We were told that a family sub-lets a room for the day for Rs 500 to a call girl."
"We raided and found that the call girl was actually a college student who had gotten involved in this trade for money. What was surprising was that the guy (a salesman with an MNC) who sublet the room was himself a married man, living with his wife and 13-year-old daughter." (click here for the full article)
And of course the internet has made a significant impact on the business, both by providing a means to advertise to up-scale clientele, but also to internationalize it:
They own domains on the Internet, float and run their own professionally-managed websites, advertise online, and faced with competitors build their own brands and emphasise on quality consciousness and good service.and
With globalisation, the trade has also acquired international stature and an international network. "Many of us have international networks, with clients in the US, UK and Australia frequently visiting India. They call or email and book their escorts in advance," offers Aryan, 'manager' of a Delhi-based escort service.(click here for the full article)The TI interviews a male pimp who has a website of girls and goes into some light detail on how the industry works for the top end clients, usually businessmen, that he deals with. He also goes on to declare which city is India's "sex capital":
Definitely Mumbai. Delhi is next but still has a long way to go. Permissiveness in Mumbai is very high. Wahan to sab kullam khulla hota hai (Everything happens there in the open). (click here for the full article).The nature of the pimps involved in the upscale end of the trade is also apparently different from the regular stereotypes:
For most pimps operating in urban metros are a far cry from the menacing, pan-chewing muscle men with a red neckerchief - the Bollywood inspired image that most of us harbour.Well there's coercion, and there's coercion. Being left with less choice because you are unable to find a good job can be a form of coercion. The only difference is that the economic structure you're in forces you to do things you otherwise wouldn't do, all for money.
These 'professionals' - referred to as 'managers' or 'secretaries' in their new avatar - are mostly well-educated and disarmingly soft-spoken. And they detest the very thought of forcing anyone into the trade, or keeping her there against her wishes. (click here for the full article)
Before I go into greater detail on the concerns I have over this kind of burgeoning sex trade, let me mention that I feel sex work should be something legalized, regulated and taxed. Consenting adults should be allowed to engage in activity of a sexual nature as a part of a commercial exchange if they so choose.
Many people pay money to do all kinds of dangerous activities, like driving a car or parachuting. But in the same way those activities are regulated for safety reasons, so should sex work be legalized and regulated for public health reasons: specifically to prevent the spread of sexually transmitted disease. Taxation could be used to pay for the costs associated with regulation, to invest in programs to help women get out of the trade, and to pay for policing costs to fight those who would seek to exploit sex trade activities that would remain illegal, such as the sexual exploitation of children.
That said, I am uncomfortable with the titillated and positive tone of the articles in the TI series. I'm far from being a prude, but the whole tenor of the piece seem to be uniformly upbeat, almost an advertisement for starting up in the trade. Issues of violence from clients is mentioned only in passing, and the issue of a lack of good paying jobs with a solid future of career development isn't even touched upon.
Unless you're a pimp, sex work is dependent on your youth and good looks. It is not a career path that has a lot of room for growth, again, unless the woman sees pimping in her future.
I can understand the argument for using sex work as a temporary career to pay for schooling, but then why should a good education be so expensive that a young woman needs to prostitute herself to attain it?
The hedge that the articles use is that many of the women simply want to have luxuries they otherwise would not have. So it is simply about base materialistic desire? Well in the same way the rare prostitute may actually enjoy her job, which I consider unlikely, the rare prostitute may find happiness in being able to buy nice clothes and a fancy car.
My worry for the women involved is that they may psychologically come to see all relationships, even intimate ones, as a form of exchange. Instead of emphasis being on mutual support and sharing, all their relationships become a means to engage in a kind of commercial trade of like value for like value.
But who wants to live their lives like every moment of it is a business?
